Truly Madly Deeply
15 Feb 2015 9:21 AM IST
Since no one is perfect, sometimes it can be very hard to work on your relationship, but the truth is that there’s nothing you can’t overcome. Most relationships do require a bit of hard work but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun along the way. Don’t let all kinds of insignificant details affect the well-being of your relationship or your happiness! Here are a few common mistakes in relationships that you should correct, regardless of the stage of your relationship:
Trying to change your significant other
One of the most common mistakes that couples make is that they try and change their partner to suit their needs. They think they are doing a favour to their partners by requesting them to change as by doing this they will be able to make their loved ones happier.
Well, if you tend to think in such a way, then I must remind you that we are all unique individuals and that the reason you’ve fallen in love with your significant other is precisely because he or she is the opposite of what you are. Try to remind yourself why do you love this wonderful person next to you so much and your desire to change them will magically disappear.
Losing Control
If you want to sustain your relationship for life, be in control of yourself. Many people lose control easily, especially with the life partner. Losing control is a sign of considering the partner less important or inferior. Frequent act of losing control in conversations or actions may irritate the partner and lessen the intensity of romance between the two
Lack of Communication
Talking to each other boosts the relationship and reduces possible tensions. It is helpful to communicate what a person needs from the other and what is expected. Lack of communication is a destructive element in a relationship. Your communication style should be one that gives enough respect.
No Overnight Lingering Arguments
Do not take your arguments to the next day and be always vigilant to put an end to arguments before you go to bed. Many people get into unwanted arguments and continue with the same topic when they get up the next day. Even if you feel that you are right and the other person is absolutely wrong, you can be silent for the sake of peaceful living and happy relationship.
Lack of Romance and Commitment
Many relationships suffer from lack of romance and commitment. People who are in a relationships should not hold back the expressions of romance. If you want the relationship to proceed happily, then be committed to the partner and always maintain the desired trust in him/her.
Keeping Secrets from the Partner
Keeping secrets from your partner is a mistake many people commit. Secrets and unrevealed realms in life may make the partners feel poles apart and unattached. Never keep secrets from the partner Wish you and your partner a life full of love and laughter.
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Trying to change your significant other
One of the most common mistakes that couples make is that they try and change their partner to suit their needs. They think they are doing a favour to their partners by requesting them to change as by doing this they will be able to make their loved ones happier.
Well, if you tend to think in such a way, then I must remind you that we are all unique individuals and that the reason you’ve fallen in love with your significant other is precisely because he or she is the opposite of what you are. Try to remind yourself why do you love this wonderful person next to you so much and your desire to change them will magically disappear.
Losing Control
If you want to sustain your relationship for life, be in control of yourself. Many people lose control easily, especially with the life partner. Losing control is a sign of considering the partner less important or inferior. Frequent act of losing control in conversations or actions may irritate the partner and lessen the intensity of romance between the two
Lack of Communication
Talking to each other boosts the relationship and reduces possible tensions. It is helpful to communicate what a person needs from the other and what is expected. Lack of communication is a destructive element in a relationship. Your communication style should be one that gives enough respect.
No Overnight Lingering Arguments
Do not take your arguments to the next day and be always vigilant to put an end to arguments before you go to bed. Many people get into unwanted arguments and continue with the same topic when they get up the next day. Even if you feel that you are right and the other person is absolutely wrong, you can be silent for the sake of peaceful living and happy relationship.
Lack of Romance and Commitment
Many relationships suffer from lack of romance and commitment. People who are in a relationships should not hold back the expressions of romance. If you want the relationship to proceed happily, then be committed to the partner and always maintain the desired trust in him/her.
Keeping Secrets from the Partner
Keeping secrets from your partner is a mistake many people commit. Secrets and unrevealed realms in life may make the partners feel poles apart and unattached. Never keep secrets from the partner Wish you and your partner a life full of love and laughter.
Send your questions to - [email protected]
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