To trust or not to trust

Tushaar, New Delhi

I appreciate your concern. But how are you so sure about the girl’s character? There are chances that she is having a genuine ‘love affair’ with your friend. I suggest, be an observer. Be protective about your friend but not possessive! 

Let him explore and realise life and love him own way. Be around but follow a simple policy – mind your own business.

Sanjay Talwar, Gujarat

You can always have a transparent communication with your father. Observe his reaction and hear his reply. Telling your mother will hurt her and this is avoidable right now. Your father surely needs to know that you are aware of his ‘other’ side. Suggest you tell him that you have known from a few friends rather than disclosing the truth. 

As he might be alert and delete information from the phone forever. Don’t be hyper, handle it well and see the results. Good luck!

Name unknown

You should tell your sister everything. Don’t let the guy mess up the relationship and faith between you two. 

Let your sister take it up with her fiance and be firm that you are not interested at all! This is a 

sensitive situation and I hope you’ll will sort it out soon! 

Mrs. Gayatri Pratap, Haryana

To some it is mandatory, to others it is vague. Personally speaking, for an arranged marriage you can try doing this as you have the option to choose. A lot of marriages sail well even without the interference of astrology and a lot break even though their horoscopes looked positive together. Marriage as a bond requires much more than just planets predicting positive future. 

Wish you the very best!