CELEBRATING WOMANHOOD
Women seek partners who have integrity and relational sensitivity, offering intimacy in physical, emotional and compassionate ways
A woman really doesn't want much from a man. There are only about seven qualities that she a woman in her life partner.
HONESTY
A woman doesn't want a man to lie to her about important matters. She wants to be an integral part of his life – the most important part, in fact. She wants to know the things that are going on his life and she wants him to repose faith in her.
UNDERSTANDING
She wants you to know her – inside and out. Why? Because only then you will love her for who she is. We all sometimes need confirmation that we're worth loving. The real us – not what others perceive us to be. We may not all need such a confirmation of our value, but we all want it. But it's more than just that!
CARE
Most people are forced to care for themselves. As human beings, we aren't always in the right mindset to care for ourselves. To top it off, that's usually exactly when we need the most caring – when we aren't mentally or physically capable of doing it ourselves.
She wants you to be there for her when she needs someone, to be there to share her burden. I know it sounds ridiculous, but she wants you to make her life a little easier.
STRENGTH
No woman wants a physical weakling. That doesn't mean she won't settle for less than Herculean, but you're a man! She wants to feel that when she's in your presence. She wants you to be intelligent and practice self-control simply because you can. We're all animals and women can tend to be attracted to stronger men.
COMPASSION
A woman doesn't only want a man to have love only for her, but a love for life, for living things. She wants a kind man, a man whom others will look up to, appreciate and admire. She doesn't see being good and compassionate as a weakness. I know lot of men are taught that to be strong you have to be hateful, spiteful and malicious. That's very unfortunate – it's simply the world we live in.
SECURITY
You don't need to be a millionaire. Well, for some women, you very well may need to be, but hopefully you'll only end up with one who admires the traits required for turning oneself into a millionaire and not the money alone. Generally speaking, the right woman will love you for you, but she does need you to add security.
BLIND LOYALTY
We all have big egos – men and women alike. We want to feel special. We want to feel unique and better than the rest. We're competitive by nature and there is no getting around it. Women want a man who sees the world in her. She knows she's not the most beautiful or smartest woman but wants to be the best woman for you.
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