Accepting the harsh truth

Be Your natural, confident self

Be suggestive and not loud in your approach

Use your eyes to speak the language of your heart

Your smile can work wonders

Care for and complement her

Be honest and transparent

Don't flirt with others in front of her

Dress smartly and aptly

Listen more; talk less

Try to be a good friend. A genuine one.

There are people who lie and then there are liars. All people, at some point or another, lie. White lies exist but we often substitute the word "excuses" for "white lies". But it's basically the same thing. On the other side, there are habitual liars. These people have made a habit out of lying. Sadly, there are some hard truths about liars. Think about it, why do people lie? They don't want to look stupid, they don't want to be wrong, they don't want to let people down, they want to keep everyone happy, they want to get what they want.

All of these motives have the "self" at the centre. Anyone who lacks the courage to look at the truth is a coward. Cowards are really hard to love. They will perpetually frustrate you. Instead of admitting their shortcomings, their failures – their basic humanness – they will lie in order to cover it up. Please understand where you stand and decide where you want to take your future with him. Too much frustration will break you. Think and act.

Try not to be "too available". My advice would be to start seeing other people and when he calls, occasionally tell him you're busy or going out. Maybe that will snap him out of the "we're just friends" routine. The bottom line is – you need to take care of yourself. He may be jealous and possessive but unless he steps up to the plate, what do you really have? By the way, I would definitely let him make the first move. He's scared of something and he has to deal with whatever that is before he would be ready for anything deeper. Don't worry about the future. Handle the present well and all will be good! Take care.

You have to establish your desire and clearly state your mind. It is quite selfish on his part to be ignorant about such a vital aspect. May be you can involve the parents or any other close member of the family or friend who in turn can help him understand the need of an offspring. You can trick him into a situation of visiting a doctor, that might help. Be confident and don't compromise on this at all.