No matter you’re black or white

Stop meeting such relatives! Colour and complexion of any person can never be a discriminating factor! This is really sad and unwanted. You should ensure that your children understand that colour and looks don’t compose a person’s life. Always highlight small, good things to your daughters and appreciate their talents. If the younger one is ever upset about this, tell her that she is the most beautiful thing that happened to you and help her to create a beautiful mind.

Ideally it shouldn’t be but most of the times ‘ideal’ situations don’t happen. The society and its various animals act and react in a manner that shows their true nature. Be firm in your belief and don’t let these winds break you down. Let go of yourself only when you are ready. Be single and be happy in your world. Ignorance is bliss and use this weapon as long as you don’t find the ‘right’ one. Avoid creeps.

 

You have to handle yourself with utmost care as you are special. Concentrate on activities that make you feel good – sport, friends, books, movies. Think both from your head and heart and decide on your choice. Living with one doesn’t mean that you will be completely detached from the other. You must spend time with both your parents according to your will. If you think, then you can also opt for a residential school away from your present location. New environment might be best. Convey your decision accordingly. Cheer up girl, life is beautiful and I’m sure, you will be happy always.

I understand how you must be feeling. It will not be easy at all. But dear, this is a very special time for the parents who are awaiting the arrival of the new one. You can be upset but this will be harmful for your mind and health. You ideally should engage yourself in some activity that you would love to do. This new relationship of an ‘elder sister’ will be a bit challenging at first but will be immensely pleasurable in future. A new life will smile happily and I’m sure you will love it.