‘Getting married again is not a bad idea!’

I have seen your FB post. I would like to come up with a problem of employment for the generation who are in their early 20s. Pressures from all aspect keep creeping up at this point of life,  job becomes a huge factor. At present the scenario of the market is really worrying. Your kind views would be welcome.
Sayandip Dutta, Kolkata

I completely understand your concern. But at the same time, I firmly believe that if the ‘will’ is strong enough, nobody can stop anybody from achieving anything! Finding a job is not impossible but finding a job that makes you feel good is a tough. There are always opportunities that have to be reached out to.

Last week when our parents were out for a day, I caught my sister having sex with our neighbour. When I asked her, she admitted of having an affair with him. I’m very
confused whether or not to tell it to my mother. What should I do?
Name unknown

You surely have the option to tell your mother but that will hamper and strain your relationship with your sibling, may be forever. If I was you, I would have kept quiet (assuming she is old enough to indulge in a relationship). Sometimes acting dumb and being quiet helps us attain our mental peace. If someday you find that the situation needs parental intervention, please do convey your feelings to your parents.

I am divorced. My parents are insisting for settlement but I really don’t want to mess my life again. I will settle down only when I find the right guy. I’m 34. How do I tell my
parents to stop worrying.
Paayel, New Delhi

Getting remarried doesn’t indicate ‘mess’ always! There are too many people around us who are happily settled after a bad fallout in their first chapter. But yes! It is most important to find the right partner.  

I’m 28, the only son of my parents. I got married last year. My wife and my parents don’t seem to have anything in common! They are always breaking into ugly fights! I don’t earn well enough to live separately and my wife is a housewife. What should I do?
Devesh, Noida

This situation is a tough one. Handle it with utmost care so that you don’t hurt anyone’s heart. The best way to mend is to relocate to a place very close to your original home. The financial constraint might be solved if your better half gets involved in some job, tuitions or small time business. Three adults cannot be tutored to live peacefully and if you don’t check the situation now, it might linger and take a bitter turn in near future. I wish you the best to keep your cool and look for a solution. Do try talking to your parents and wife seperately or may be a group chat over a small family vacation will give some postive results.

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