I’m a 26-year-old man but I feel like a woman! Please help me understand myself. Is it right or wrong?
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You’re already there... its not right or wrong. It’s YOU. You have to be yourself, love yourself the most. You have to feel - You are special! Please take this from me, a lifetime is a long time to feel confused and miserable. I know what you are feeling but don’t let anyone look down upon you. Do what makes YOU happy and whatever is your sexual preference, just flow with it. There’s no point leading a life that doesn’t suit you! Be proud of what you are.
God bless!
Hi! I love someone very deeply for many years but he doesn’t seem to love me at all! Can you help me by suggesting ways of getting out of this mental mess!
Radhika, New Delhi
Loving someone who doesn’t love you is one of the most hopeless feelings in the world because it isn’t something you can control. Then again, this is exactly why you need to start the healing process: it’s not your fault, there’s nothing you could have done differently, and the only thing left to do is move on. Allow yourself time to grieve. When you love someone who doesn’t love you back, it hurts. Take some time away from the other person. Realize you are better off. It doesn’t matter how great the person is, you are better off without loving someone who doesn’t love you back. All the best!
I’m 23 and my parents insist on an arranged marriage next year! I’m just not sure about it. Can you suggest how to be sure?
Divya Saxena, New Delhi
It’s your life ultimately and the choice is upto you. I don’t think you should enter an arranged marriage to keep your parents happy. It’s your life, not theirs. Whatever you decide to do, be guilt free. Know that asserting some independence does not make you a bad person and you shouldn’t let them make you feel otherwise, even if it means avoiding them. But you need to ask yourself one most important question - are you sure you’re ready for marriage? You shouldn’t get married to escape a situation because that rarely ends with happily ever after.
What do you think are the ways I can impress girls?
Jasjeet, Ludhiana
These are some very important ingredients that might help you cook a good ‘impressive’ recipe:
Be your natural, confident self
Be suggestive not loud in your approach Your smile can work wonders Care for and compliment her...
Be honest and transparent
Don’t flirt with others in front of her
Dress smartly and aptly
Listen more. Talk less
Send your questions to – roopshashotm@gmail.com
Name and location
unknown
You’re already there... its not right or wrong. It’s YOU. You have to be yourself, love yourself the most. You have to feel - You are special! Please take this from me, a lifetime is a long time to feel confused and miserable. I know what you are feeling but don’t let anyone look down upon you. Do what makes YOU happy and whatever is your sexual preference, just flow with it. There’s no point leading a life that doesn’t suit you! Be proud of what you are.
God bless!
Hi! I love someone very deeply for many years but he doesn’t seem to love me at all! Can you help me by suggesting ways of getting out of this mental mess!
Radhika, New Delhi
Loving someone who doesn’t love you is one of the most hopeless feelings in the world because it isn’t something you can control. Then again, this is exactly why you need to start the healing process: it’s not your fault, there’s nothing you could have done differently, and the only thing left to do is move on. Allow yourself time to grieve. When you love someone who doesn’t love you back, it hurts. Take some time away from the other person. Realize you are better off. It doesn’t matter how great the person is, you are better off without loving someone who doesn’t love you back. All the best!
I’m 23 and my parents insist on an arranged marriage next year! I’m just not sure about it. Can you suggest how to be sure?
Divya Saxena, New Delhi
It’s your life ultimately and the choice is upto you. I don’t think you should enter an arranged marriage to keep your parents happy. It’s your life, not theirs. Whatever you decide to do, be guilt free. Know that asserting some independence does not make you a bad person and you shouldn’t let them make you feel otherwise, even if it means avoiding them. But you need to ask yourself one most important question - are you sure you’re ready for marriage? You shouldn’t get married to escape a situation because that rarely ends with happily ever after.
What do you think are the ways I can impress girls?
Jasjeet, Ludhiana
These are some very important ingredients that might help you cook a good ‘impressive’ recipe:
Be your natural, confident self
Be suggestive not loud in your approach Your smile can work wonders Care for and compliment her...
Be honest and transparent
Don’t flirt with others in front of her
Dress smartly and aptly
Listen more. Talk less
Send your questions to – roopshashotm@gmail.com